Break ups are devastating experiences, especially if you are still in love with your ex. The situation becomes worse if your ex does not answer your phone calls. Breaking up can really be painful and tough, especially if we do not learn how to deal with it effectively. So follow the guide below to get you on the right track to get a woman back. I am going to enter into a discussion about the psychology of attraction and how you can use that to your advantage to get your ex back if you understand how this stuff really works.
Let’s say that you first met your ex girlfriend in a club (you may not have done, but the principals remain the same). You went up to her and said hi, got chatting and things moved on from there. How does this relate to attraction and pressing emotional trigger points to win back her heart speedily? Well, in a room of guys by stepping forward and saying hi, you are subconsciously communicating that you are a leader amongst men. Now, that may sound far-fetched, but actually it is the exact truth. The reason it is true is that physically and emotionally humans have not developed much from their cave man ancestry. In evolutionary terms we are still in the mouth of the cave wondering where our next meal is going to come from. We are in fight or flight mode much of the time, and when we aren’t we are thinking up ways to get our next meal.
These days if a woman rejects you the worst that generally happens is a polite refusal, and you slink back to your friends to make up some story about how she was actually a lesbian. But it doesn’t feel like that before you do it. Your heart is pounding, and part of you even now wants to get your girlfriend back simply so that you don’t have to go through that again! Before you approach a woman it generally feels like your guts are being ripped out, and that there is a very real risk of total social exclusion and pariah status if she turns you down. On the converse side, women are also creatures of their biology. In the past they knew that it was a big deal for a guy to approach them, because if he got it wrong, then she could feasibly turn him down and mess up his status within the very small tribal unit. A few thousand years on she knows logically that that isn’t the case, and that turning a guy down isn’t even going to ruin his night, let alone his life. But nevertheless on a subconscious level she knows it is a big deal.
In essence this means that you must get back to the point with her where you have high social status and she sees you as a leader of men. You don’t have to come out and say it of course. That would just sound plain odd 
But have you ever thought about what it is about movie stars, men in rock bands, or political leaders that seems to turn on so many women? Simple. It’s not money. It’s not even power in the sense you may think. It is leadership. These are all leadership positions, and women are biologically programmed to respond to it in men.
To do that you need to think back first of all to when you first met. Give some thought to the circumstances of your first meeting and what exactly happened to get her attracted to you. Was it something you said? Was it something you did? Was it something instinctive? Now, you may think that you can’t remember this, but if you close your eyes and re-create the scene in your mind’s eye like you are re-running a clip from a movie, then it is amazing quite how many of the specific details you will find that you will be able to recall. Now, once you have some of the specifics then it is time to move forward. Seize on those elements that you can associate with early attraction and start pressing those same buttons in her again. Soon enough the biology of attraction will see her back in your arms